Jan Charles Barnes

Obituary for a Troubled Father
A Life Marked by Struggle
Jan Charles Barnes was born on September 29, 1959, to Jerry and Janet Barnes. He was preceded in death by his father, Jerry. His mother, Janet Barnes, resides in Porterville, CA.
Jan is survived by two children: Andrew Joseph Barnes and his husband, Charles Ray Hull of Woodlake, CA; and Kassie Ann Williams, her husband Jeffery George Williams, and their children Brooklyn Ann and Brayden Kenneth Williams, all from Visalia, CA.
Andrew and Kassie's mother, Jan's first wife Daura Ann Johnson (now Castle), and her husband Donnie Castle live in Springville, CA.
Jan's siblings include John Barnes, his wife Roberta, and their children Danial, Sara, and Dylan Barnes (Porterville, CA); and sister Jill Bastian, her husband Nick Bastian, and their children Becky and Casey Bastian (Springville, CA).
We announce the passing of our father, whose life was marked by challenges and hardship.
He faced many personal battles, including struggles with substance abuse and alcoholism.
These difficulties deeply impacted our family and shaped the course of our lives together.
Early Life and Family
Our father grew up in a world that was not always kind. While he had moments of kindness and humor, his relationships often suffered under the weight of his addictions. The pain and instability that came from his actions left lasting effects on those closest to him.
Personal Demons
Throughout his adult life, our father wrestled with addiction-both to drugs and alcohol.
These battles frequently led to periods of conflict and abuse within our home. We remember the difficulties, the broken trust, and the confusion that came from living with someone torn by inner turmoil. Yet, we also recognize that addiction is a complex disease that can overwhelm even the strongest among us.
Legacy
Our family carries forward a legacy mixed with pain and lessons learned. We strive to heal from the wounds of the past, to break cycles of harm, and to foster compassion and understanding for others who may face similar struggles. In his passing, we reflect not only on what was lost, but on the resilience we have found, and the hope we hold for better days ahead.
Services
A small, private gathering will be held. Family members will come together in support and remembrance, sharing their memories and their hopes for healing. We choose to honor the truth of our experiences, acknowledging both the sorrow and the strength found in moving forward.
If you or someone you know is struggling, help is available. Contact the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988 for support and guidance any time, day or night.
For assistance with domestic violence, please reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 for confidential help and resources.
If you or someone you know is experiencing child abuse, call the Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline at 1-800-422-4453 for immediate support and guidance.
May we remember, learn, and grow, from all of life’s experiences! Rest in peace Father, For now you are free!